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 A Passion for Living  if I continued down the road I was on   ashington  isn’t  content   person’s  hands;  the  hands  of  families



        that I was going to be an “okay” guy…
                                                                                this book into the hand of everybody
                                                        sidelines  because  life
        but I was also going to be an average           to  simply  sit  on  the   and the hands of churches. I want to get
        guy—and  I  wanted  more.  Writing  the  Wisn’t  a  spectator  sport.   walking,  sitting  or  standing;  so  that
        book brought me to a moment of truth   The  indomitable  spirit  that  fuels  him   they will realize that they do not have
 “Nothing is impossible until you declare it is impossible. We have got to get out of our own way   that I could no longer live that life of   is  burning  like  a  wildfire  and  igniting   to settle… average is not good enough
 and realize that when things seem impossible, it is very possible for God, and therefore I want to   quiet  desperation.  I  had  to  come  to   others  to  elevate  their  “average”   and  okay  is  not  okay.  I  believe  their
 encourage people to just go for it. Don’t stop… don’t quit… don’t set any limits!  Move forward and   grips with who I was and who I wanted   achievements as well. He is spreading   lives  can  change,  and  I  believe  this
 excel. Most men see things as they are and say why… you and I must dream of things that never
 were and say why not? Give yourself permission today to fully participate in your own rescue and   to become.  the message of Breaking the Spirit of   book is the stepping stone in their life
 go to the next level!”    -Joseph B. Washington  Average through every venue possible.   to  help  facilitate  that  process.  I want
               y  observing  those  around  me,   “This  message  is  open  to  everybody:   to invoke change in people. I want to
               I  realized  that  their  lives were   all  the  schools  around  the  country,   wake  them  up.  I  want  to  make  them
 BY Joseph B. Washington  not changing. Ever since I was   whether  high  school,  middle,  or   mad enough so they will begin to see
       Ba small child, I knew that there    elementary;  all  the  major  networking   themselves  for  who  they  really  are—
        was greatness inside of me. I just did   organizations  and  companies  in   and then begin to aggressively change
        not know how to go about connecting   corporate  America  need  to  hear   their lives. The future is bright, and I
 hese  are  words  of  an  individual  And  although  Washington  was  taken  of 13, I began to notice a change in my   with that inner strength and passion   this message. It is open, available   am looking forward to doing some
 who  lives  his  life  full  of  passion  away  from  the  reassurances  of  his  speech. I wasn’t stuttering as much, and I   and  bringing  it  into  fruition.  I  always   and relevant to any group or   incredible things. I want to get
 and  vigor.  His  dynamic  style  of  grandmother,  something  extraordinary  could say sentences fluently without any   knew  there  was  something  different   individual  that  is  ready  to   this message traveling around
 Tspeaking entrances his audience,  occurred.  After  constantly  being  teased  interruption. My mother was a constant   about my mind set. It was always very   break the spirit of average.   the world, and it is, indeed,
 but  the  wisdom  and  simplicity  of  his  by  the  neighborhood  kids,  Washington  reminder  to  me:  she  would  say  ‘Joseph   uncomfortable for me to have to just   That’s   what   I   love   Breaking   beginning to take on a life
 message  transcends  gender,  age,  race,  went  home  one  day  and  confessed  to  did  you  hear  that?  You  didn’t  stutter.’   settle;  it  was  not  okay  for  me.  Being   about  this  concept,   the Spirit   of its own: it is catching
 and religion. His message is for everyone.  his  mother  that  he  believed  the  taunts  My  teacher  was  a  tremendous  help  to   around average people (even though I   because  people  find   of average iS   fire!  The  best  is  yet
 And his concept is one of accountability  of  the  other  neighborhood  children.  He  me. She supported me by coming to my   conformed to that lifestyle), I realized   themselves  in  a gloBal meSSage   to come!”
 and  responsibility.  It  encourages you  to  acknowledged that he was indeed stupid  football games, and she would have me   that  there  was  no  responsibility,   the message no   that reSonateS
 embrace  your  positive  attributes  while  and  dumb.  Upon  hearing  this  recitation  stand  up  and  express  myself  openly  to   accountability  or  reward  for  their   matter  who  they   around the world   h  e
 at  the  same  time  reflect,  re-evaluate,  of self-pity and self doubt, Washington’s  the class. Our relationship is still in place   decisions, and I always knew there was   are.  Those  seven   from a man who iS   T
 and  transform  that  which  is  negative  mother looked deep into his eyes and lit  today. Whenever I go back to San Diego   something  different  and  better  to  be   keys  are  essential   definitely not
 into  a  positive  catalyst  for  re-birth  and  the pilot light of his driving passion.  to  visit,  I  take  her  roses,  and  we  will   had.  Just  watching  people  in  my  life,   to   getting   them   juSt your
 renewal.  Joseph  B.  Washington  is  an   have  breakfast  or  dinner.  She  has  been   I  knew  that  was  not  what  I  wanted   to the next level.”    superhero  of  this  story
 Average  Breaker;  and  his  passion?  That   y mother said  you are not  an ongoing source of encouragement in   to  become.  I  wanted  my  children  to   Breaking  the  spirit  of   average   has taught us that a hero
 everyone will Break the Spirit of Average   stupid  or  dumb,  Joseph,  you  my life. Between my mother and Nancy,   be  proud  of  me.  I  wanted  them  to   average  in  his  own  life   joe.  lies  in  every  one  of  us,  and
 in  every  area  of  their  life.  How  did  this   are  very  smart:  it’s  just  that  I have a constant gauge of how well I am   reflect  back  and  say  that  their  dad   initiated a tremendous change   that  the  passion  which  drives
 journey  begin?  Once  upon  a  time  there Myour  brain  and  mouth  have  doing.”  did  something  special  that  changed   in  Washington’s  mindset  and   us is a fire that can burn, but does
 was a young boy with red hair, eyes that  not caught each other but when they do…  their  lives.  I  just  didn’t  want  to  be   attitude. His passion for living and   not  consume.  Regardless  of  what
 changed  color  with  the  summer  sun,  its  over,”  Washington  recalls.  “I  thought  Soon  Washington  became  a  pro  at   average… I just got tired of the same   sharing this life-changing message is   obstacles  we  may  face,  Joseph  B.
 and  a  speech  impediment;  who  later  to myself, ‘yeah… that’s right… my brain  speaking in public during his high school   old  expectations  and  settlements.  As   off  the  charts,  and  his  hunger  to  see   Washington has demonstrated how a
 developed an innate ability to transform  and  my  mouth  have  not  caught  each  and college years, and by the time he was   a  matter  of  fact,  we  live  in  a  society   others  have  breakthroughs  in  every   stumbling block can become a stepping
 those obstacles into stepping stones and  other.’ I decided then that I was going to  23, he was a licensed elder in the Church   that  breeds  average  people.  It  is  the   area of their life knows no boundaries.   stone, and how a dream can become
 successfully achieve anything he wanted  speak normally. I did not know how it was  of  Christ  denomination,  scheduling   norm to be average in our society, in   “My  goal  is  that  every  human  being   reality. Breaking the Spirit of Average
 to.  So, who is this superhero? None other  going to happen or when it was going to  speaking engagements at church events   our school systems, in our families, in   in the  world  will hear the message   is  a  global  message  that  resonates
 than Joseph B. Washington: businessman,  happen,  but  I  made  the  decision  that  and  youth  ministries.  His  corporate   our jobs; we groom people to become   of  Breaking  the  Spirit  of  Average,” #     #     #  around the world from a man who is
 speaker and author of Breaking the Spirit  day  that  those  two  entities  would  sync  speaking  began  when  he  was  working   average.”  Washington said. “My immediate goal   definitely not just your Average Joe.
 of Average. Although Superman has the  together. My mother then sat me down,  in  executive  management  with  Delta   is  to  get  this  book  into  every  young
 ability  to  leap  tall  buildings  in  a  single  handed  me  the  dictionary  and  I  began  Airlines.  But  what  fueled  Washington’s
 bound, Washington developed his power  to  read  it  from A  to  Z.  I  love  to  watch  desire  to  bring  about  the  concept  of   Average Breaker LLC. specializes in helping corporate America,
 to  overcome  insurmountable  odds  with  movies, my mother recognized that, and  Breaking the Spirit of Average?  “A defining   non-profit organizations, colleges, network marketing groups
 a  single  purpose—breaking  the  spirit  of  I became a master mimic of Gary Cooper  moment of my life is when I began to write   and  many  others  deal  with  changing  environments  while
 average.    Ridiculed  at  the  tender  age  and Sidney Poitier. She would tell me to  the  book,  because  even  though  I  had   maintaining  a  high  level  of  performance.  Washington  is
 of  five  for  his  sever  stuttering  problem,  repeat  what  they  said,  and  that’s  how  conquered my speech challenge, my life   a  featured writer  in  the  book Walking with  the Wise  along
 young Joseph felt discouraged. However,  we got started.” The fire was lit, and the  was still pretty average. Most of my life   with  such  authors  as  Tom  Hopkins,  Mark  Victor  Hansen,
 it  was  the  love  of  his  grandmother  driving  passion  to  excel  developed with  I had average people around me. Writing   Brian Tracy, Zig Ziglar, Harvey Mackay, and Cynthia Kersey.
 that  sustained  his  confidence.  At  the  the  support  of  Washington’s  mother,  the  book  made  me  reflect  and  look  at   Washington has authored several books; his latest is Breaking
 age  of  nine,  his  family  relocated  from  Ruth Ramona Craig, and his third grade  my life with honesty. I had to have some   the Spirit of Average which can be purchased online at www.
 Washington,  D.C.  to  San  Diego,  CA.  teacher,  Nancy  Oekel.  “Around  the  age  emotional integrity with myself. I realized   letaveragego.com



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